The Biggest Communication Problem is We Don’t Listen to Understand, We Listen to Reply – Meaning

Here is the meaning of the famous quote “The Biggest Communication Problem is We Don’t Listen to Understand, We Listen to Reply“.

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The Biggest Communication Problem is We Don’t Listen to Understand, We Listen to Reply

Meaning of the quote “The Biggest Communication Problem is We Don’t Listen to Understand, We Listen to Reply”

Dictionary definition of Communication is exchanging of information by speaking, writing, or using any other medium.

Communication is something very simple but yet difficult to achieve if you are communicating with a person who is hearing your issues rather than listening to them. It means they are just hearing your voice through their ears but are not actually thinking in-depth into it and processing the data accordingly.

Most of you might have experienced this issue. There might be some situation where you are in a difficult situation and you are sharing your issues with someone, but you felt that they are not listening to you. Instead they blabber (bla bla bla) something to you.

I advised everyone to listen them first, give them your full attention on their issues and then you will know what to reply. Always listen to understand and not to blabber what you know or to show that you know everything.

Different People might be having same life experiences like you, but they interpret it differently. Understand their interpretation, perception & thereafter reply them, only if there is a need to.

In any relationship, father/mother with son/daughter, husband with wife, boyfriend with girlfriend, among friends, relatives etc., communication plays a key role in better relationship. But how ? I will explain in details. When you are communicating with someone, you are sharing your feelings and emotions with them, but they have a chance to understand you and know how you work only if the other person listens to understand you and no listen to reply & vice versa. When two persons understand each other’s perspective, there trend to be lesser arguments between them.

Moreover, even when there are any arguments at times, you may know how to end the argument due to the very reason that you know how the other works.

A perfect communication helps to understand the other and yourself. Even when there is no argument, you can know each other. When we communicate, we open ourselves to each other where we share part of ourself and in that sharing we build a strong bond between each other which gets deeper, we feel more connected with them. Then we want to understand them more because we will know to keep them happy, safe, solve their problems and bring them back to their life.

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